There are many kinds of bullying and the most common type of bullying is the bullying at school. It’s a fact, bullying is widely spread in schools where there are a lot of children. A child could possibly bully a child and it is very important to identify the signs of bullying and prevent it from causing more damage to your child.
It’s very hard for the bullying victims to speak up because they are afraid of being embarrassed by what’s happening to them. Parents should be more cautious in taking care of their child because being bullied will dramatically cause depression. These are the possible signs your child is being bullied:
Not wanting to go to school
Children who get bullied will surely be afraid of being bullied again. They will be frightened in seeing the ones who bullied them. Aside from being afraid of the bully, they don’t want others to see that they are being bullied. Embarrassment will be one of the psychological effects to your child when they don’t want to go to school.
Unfamiliar physical marks, scrapes, and bruises
Physical bullying is a very serious and a common form of bullying that a victim will experience. This is where the bully hurts his victim’s body by punching, kicking and other kinds of hits. Parent’s should recognize this marks especially if their child can’t explain what caused this. Worst case scenario, your child can get serious injuries if no actions have been taken.
Sudden change of mood
Being bullied has a big effect on a child especially in emotional aspects. Kids who are bullied are more likely to experience depression and anxiety. This can change in emotional and behavioral activities of childlike changes in sleep and eating patterns, and loss of interest of what they usually love to do.
Unexplained damaged and loss of your child’s things
When your child’s clothes, toys, and other things are damaged or missing and they can’t explain anything, they are more likely to experience bullying in school. A child who is being bullied often doesn’t tell their parents because they are afraid.
Sudden drop in grades
Declining of a child’s grades in school will be one of the signs a parent will discover when they are being bullied. Lack of interest in studying is the common cause of this. A child can’t perform well in school because they will be more focus on their experience about being bullied. Overall, your child will feel unmotivated in school.
Afraid of being left alone
Experiencing sadness and loneliness of your child is a very serious problem to deal with when he is suffering from bullying. These symptoms are the most painful feelings a child could ever experience. Children who are experiencing these are more likely to be clingy and will always be on the side of their parents. They don’t want to be alone because of the feeling of being hurt again by someone.
Show love and support to your child when they are experiencing these signs of bullying. You can help them by reporting and submitting complaints to us. It is important to talk with children to find out what caused the bullying, how to stop bullying and explain to them that bullying is wrong and they need to be strong and overcome it.